Tonight’s Mayoral Endorsement

Tonight our County Democratic Party will consider endorsing in the San Diego mayoral race.

I was initially undecided regarding which candidate I would personally endorse, and whether the Party should weigh in six months before the primary election. Following a great deal of introspection, conversations, and reading the opinions of others, I am at peace with the vote I will cast tonight.

I respect all three candidates for widely differing reasons:

TASHA: Tasha Williamson is all heart, passion, and commitment to community. She puts her body on the line in the fight for racial equity and criminal justice, and she is a gift to all of us who will listen to her perspectives. As a white woman, I will never experience what it is like to walk in Tasha’s shoes, but she is a damn fine communicator and expert in her life story, and we should follow her lead often.

BARBARA: Barbara Bry is a champion for women candidates and professionals, and she has paved the way for increased access and success for many. I have found her to be approachable, warm and responsive to her district.

TODD: I have observed Todd Gloria’s political career since he was first elected to San Diego City Council in 2008 and worked collaboratively with Councilmember Donna Frye. During his first year in office, Environmental groups held a little event to commemorate the release of the Environmental Report Card. Donna Frye received an A+ and he’d received an A-. He said: “I’m a very competitive person, and next year it’ll be an A+!”

Because he has a record of more than a decade of public service, we all likely have experienced decisions he has made as Councilmember, City Council President, Interim Mayor, and Assemblymember that at times disappoint and at others are cause for accolades and celebration. This is to be expected of any and all of the people in our lives, including elected officials. Politics is complicated (so shocking). He took the time to sit down with me last weekend to talk through my thoughts and concerns, which I appreciate.

Regarding Tasha, this race is a phenomenal opportunity to elevate awareness and identify solutions for the underserved and often maligned and marginalized community members who are her self-assigned care. I do not believe she can mobilize City of San Diego voters to elect her to the Mayor’s seat in 2020. I do believe she will use this candidacy and platform to create meaningful, lasting change and run for local office in the future as a better-known community advocate.

Regarding Barbara, I have been bitterly disappointed in a handful of her City Council votes and in several of her statements on the campaign trail. Frankly, some of her positions have come as a complete shock. It is not a crime to be homeless. It should not be a crime to sleep in one’s car. While her inhumane vote on this issue may appease some La Jolla voters, I do not want this inhumane approach to homelessness from the most powerful local elected leader in the greater San Diego region.

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Barbara Bry campaign email, August 20, 2019

We have a dire lack of affordable housing and we are in climate crisis. As a Board Member with the Cleveland National Forest Foundation for more than a decade, I have advocated for increased housing density and redevelopment within the urban core.

We need housing. We need it on transit corridors. We need to complete the light rail network and supplement it with additional bus services. We need to build it with a local, skilled and trained labor force at rates that sustain working families. We need leaders who will lead decisively on this even when it’s unpopular.

We *do* need to exercise wisdom and nuance in the application of more generous redevelopment/new housing development policies. We *do* need to extract public amenities where there are public impacts. We *do* need to incentivize development near transit resources. There are already going to be building height restrictions within the Coastal Zone. We must reject fear mongering rhetoric that seeks to hinder progress.

Barbara’s campaign consultant is Tom Shepard, the same consultant who worked for Carlsbad’s Republican Mayor Matt Hall. Her most inflammatory positions have been anti-housing and anti-growth. In white, privileged, coastal communities, these positions inherently include racially divisive meaning: “We can’t build affordable housing here. ‘Those’ people will move in and change our community character.”

Such exclusionary, fear-based rhetoric is how we elected Trump. No thank you. Send a message to Tom Shepard that rejects his divisive, tired, racist and classist Republican electoral tactics. I am deeply disappointed that Barbara walked down that path and continues to double down on it. It is not the path for San Diego’s best future.

Regarding Todd, there are several key reasons I have come to openly and freely support him for Mayor. He will advance policies that center the poorest San Diegans in the most neglected communities. He faced political retribution for increasing the local minimum wage and sick days. He has been a strong advocate and partner for effective regional solutions to homelessness.

Todd proactively and resourcefully stood with the Barrio Logan community and the efforts of the Environmental Health Coalition to protect the residents from ongoing sources of air pollution, where the air quality continues to be of statewide concern and children still have exponentially higher rates of asthma compared to other regions of the City. His leadership at that time was a beacon of hope for a community that very much needs powerful allies. I trust him to help usher in a meaningful Barrio Logan Community Plan Update.

While I was disappointed in some of his prior votes at SANDAG, I know that behind the scenes under the control of Gary Gallegos, Board Members were harangued by attorneys who tied their hands if they attempted to break with prior roads-centric RTPs. Gallagos is now gone, and it’s a new day. The City of San Diego controls 40% of the weighted vote at SANDAG, and together with amazing Democrats finding their voices and using their votes to promote regional transit-driven solutions, Todd Gloria, the new ED, and the Board will be equipped to transform our region for the better.

Given Bry’s anti-growth campaign statements, the thought of her being the most powerful Board Member at SANDAG concerns me.

It’s our job as committed Democrats, in many cases elected to make decisions as Democrat leaders (or their alternates), to refine and carry out the vision of the Party in local elections. We know these candidates and their records intimately. San Diego’s next Mayor will be stepping into office at a critical moment in history. We *finally* have courageous, effective leadership at SANDAG. We have an engaged, increasingly educated public that largely recognizes that change must come or we won’t have a future. These Democrats will all still be on the March primary ballot and may successfully reach the public to communicate their vision, but we can decide today if there is a clear best candidate.

The distinctions on issues I care most about are clear, and I trust Todd to lead.

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I Trust Daraka & The Survivors

High profile scandals involving sexual harassment, sexual assault, and bullying abuses of power invite criticisms of all kinds. Nearly six years ago, I began more publicly finding my voice to stand up for women who were sexually harassed by then-Mayor Bob Filner. I worked for Marco Gonzalez at the time, and he, Donna Frye, and Cory Briggs were the first to call for Filner’s resignation in July 2013. Marco and Donna first privately met with him, and he had agreed to a certain course of sexual harassment prevention training, ceasing those activities, and obtaining other personal help, which he promptly ignored.

I remained publicly silent about the fact that I had been a recipient of his abuses of power until last year, but Marco, Donna, Cory, my Mom, and a select couple of other individuals knew. I believed the women that came forward. I believed the women who called the office who simply wanted to thank Marco for what he was doing, who anonymously shared stories with me from twenty years prior of Filner’s harassment. I believed those who reached out to me as I was publicly advocating for victims and for Filner’s resignation via private message, telling me atrocious stories that I will never share publicly because the victims themselves would recognize themselves in the retelling, and they never came forward.

I was called all sorts of things by Democrats who thought the whole scandal was some sort of monied takedown of the first Mayor who ever advanced progressive causes in San Diego. I was called a surrogate, among other things. Marco, Donna, and Cory were called worse. Conspiracy theories were launched. In 2017, the Chair of the San Diego County Democratic Party told me in a phone conversation that we (the local Dem Party) would have been better off had Filner remained in office while civil litigation took its due course. (How many more women would have been harassed in that year+ process? How many more lawsuits would that have engendered? It’s not like we could put the Mayor in a cage and keep him from meeting with the public, lobbyists, activists… UGH!)

In the words of Donna Frye: Bob Filner got the process he was due.

In December 2016, I was presented the opportunity to advocate for one, then two, soon three, and more women who had been/were employed by Mickey Kasparian, a powerful leader and political kingmaker-behind-the-scenes in San Diego. My fear told me the risks were real, though he had no direct influence over my professional future. Action was therefore an imperative. At the request of Sandy Naranjo, I arranged a meeting with Donna Frye and Irene McCormick and several other women who had claims of wrongful termination and other abuses by Kasparian.

I catapulted into nearly two years of activism on behalf of these victims, which finally culminated in confidential legal settlements with four women and the removal from power of Kasparian from the San Diego and Imperial Counties Labor Council (implemented by the AFL-CIO) and his union, UFCW Local 135 (he was voted out by the members via internal democratic process and LOTS of organizing). None of us knew this was possible in the beginning, and those who were attacked along the way are still suffering their wounds. There should be better ways, and justice delayed inflicts greater injustice. When “due process” protects serial abusers, suffering lingers and intensifies.

That is why I have been so impressed by Daraka Larimore-Hall and his decisive actions within the California Democratic Party. Within hours of victims confiding in him directly their corroborated stories of sexual assault and harassment by the powerful former Party Chair Eric Bauman, he used his position to directly confront him, then file formal internal charges against him using the only means available via the bylaws. He orchestrated a compassionate telling of the partial stories of those who were willing via a trusted media outlet. These cumulative actions resulted in the abrupt resignation of the former Chair – the most rapid direct justice I have experienced in my years of activism surrounding these issues. More remains to be done in terms of greater transparency and checks and balances in power of the recently vacated position, but for the sake of those who have suffered in silence, this was a tremendous first step.

When I was a teen, my Mom told me: before you confide your burdens in somebody, sometimes the most responsible thing to do is to ask them if they are willing to carry your burdens. I see what she meant more all the time. Some burdens are meant to be borne silently, and some compel action to remedy injustices done by the powerful to those in their realm of power. Even while taking action, often the most burdensome personal stories require sustained secrecy.

When more than a dozen victims/survivors entrust their stories to a person equipped to enact justice on their behalf, we need to take a breath as the greater public before we weigh in with our opinions and criticisms. Due process has a place. Civil legal procedures often delay justice and therefore often represent justice denied in these instances of multiple victims at the hand of powerful figures.

And: the worst stories often never surface.

There’s a difference between a rumor mill and an individual or two entrusted with and propelled into action on behalf of others who have been wronged. There are also people who will misuse victims who looked to them for a champion but who only have designs on personal gain.

There were rumor mills and anecdotal whisperings about Filner, Kasparian, and Bauman, but nothing substantiated to the voting public or the majority of other powerful influencers until, suddenly, there WERE. A common thread is that all three seemed to reach a point of power that convinced them they were invincible and entitled. Another common thread is that, once told of specific abuses, brave individuals spoke up and enacted justice by any means available.

Daraka Larimore-Hall has borne the burden and acted in the ways he was informed by several (of many more who I am sure the rest of us will never know) victims of Bauman’s abuses of power. He will continue to protect them and lead the California Democratic Party toward greater transparency and protection of the vulnerable employed by and active in political spaces. He knew the procedural limitations and acted anyhow.

This is leadership.

I trust Daraka to lead with sensitivity, deep care and commitment, and moral conviction and to usher in the next phase of the California Democratic Party. He knows the structural weaknesses and has the insight, vision and capability to heal these from within the existing framework of the Party.

Some would advocate that we reactively burn the whole thing down. But the stakes are too high. People silently carried their shameful stories of abuse for so long because they didn’t want to contribute to the destruction of this vehicle of greater social justice via electoral politics. Daraka has shown that he can effectively work within the existing structure, will highlight the areas that need changes via internal democratic process, will pull from professional independent resources, and will move forward with a strength that can inform greater society how to enact needed change.

I trust Daraka to implement trauma-informed justice within the California Democratic Party, to continue the good work that resulted in so many phenomenal electoral wins in 2018, and to model organizational reform that will be a replicable example of leadership in a greater society that sorely needs it. I trust him to show that our platform is a living, breathing document that uplifts people, and to restore trust in our Party at a critical time.

I trust Daraka, as do so many others. Hold him accountable, and let him lead.

 

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We Will Not Be Quiet

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I was feeling anything but safe, but I was sitting at the kid’s table at my Mom’s church with my daughters, using watercolors on construction paper, painting the word “SAFE.”
My cell phone started receiving text messages from my boss, Marco Gonzalez.
We had recently met with Irene McCormack. Donna Frye sent her our way, and we heard from her firsthand how terrible the working environment was with then-Mayor Bob Filner; how he was verbally and physically sexually harassing her and others on San Diego City staff.
After meeting with Irene, Marco, Donna, and Cory Briggs called for Filner’s resignation. He responded with a vague video apology. We all knew it was his desperate, Tom Shepard PR-team-attempt to avoid accountability and continue forward with no change to protect the women in the Mayor’s office and broader community.
Irene then decided she would allow her name to be used, but despite her respect and credibility among local media, Marco knew the naysayers would immediately attempt to discredit her.
I went out in the quiet church parking lot to speak with Marco. His voice was full of grief and urgency, saying Irene needed others, even anonymously, to share their stories of Filner’s harassment to bolster her account. “It’s completely up to you, Sara. But Irene needs you.”
I definitely didn’t feel safe.

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Survivors are NOT Lori Saldaña’s Political Pawns

Here are people who have come forward with claims of sexual harassment against local, powerful men Lori Saldaña has not supported:

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All the women who publicly accused Bob Filner of sexual harassment, plus Todd Bosnich, Justin Harper, Isabel Vasquez, and Melody Godinez.

Why hasn’t Lori supported these brave individuals?

For the Filner accusers in 2013, Saldaña said she thought “due process” was important.

In a February 2018 Voice of San Diego podcast, she explains why she privately opposed Filner’s endorsement for Mayor (2011), publicly endorsed his candidacy for Mayor (2012), then called for due process when he was being accused of sexual harassment by several women (2013).

She explained: “If he leaves voluntarily and we never get to the root of how this happened, then it’s going to continue to happen. So that was why I said, ‘We need a process.’” Continue reading

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Original post: https://timesofsandiego.com/opinion/2018/04/05/metoo-democratic-women-will-not-be-quiet-at-annual-party-dinner/

MeToo

By Carol Kim and Alexis Olbrei

The #MeToo movement marches forward in San Diego with this weekend’s “we will not be quiet” action at the 38th annual Roosevelt Dinner, which is the San Diego County Democratic Party’s major gala and awards event.

Local Democratic Party activists, members and elected officials will dress to impress and show up at the designated union hotel to network, share the latest news and celebrate our victories, as wells as raise money for the party’s operations and activities in the coming year. Unlike past years though, you’ll be seeing women and their allies wearing buttons bearing the statement, “I will not be quiet.” Continue reading

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Swords into Ploughshares

It can feel gratifying to fight. To win a protracted debate, point by point. But this can quickly become counterproductive if we’re not careful.

Loving our enemies, as I was reminded by Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.’s sermon, does not mean silently standing by as injustice continues to reign.

But if we operate in hate and bitterness, if we cannot envision the more just world we are trying to create, creating it first internally, we will never achieve our goal of peace. Continue reading

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Hurting People Hurt…

If “hurting people hurt people,” and the people they hurt react in ways that cause further injury in return, is that some kind of karmic cycle of deserved pain?

Is it possible for one person to disappoint and wound another so completely that they “earn” unlimited destructive retribution at the hand of the one whose pain they caused?

What if two people hurt each other in this pattern for years – then one finally puts the cycle to an end despite the other’s continued attempts to manipulate and inflict pain? Continue reading

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